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The Forgotten Virtue of Affability
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The Forgotten Virtue of Affability

A counter-cultural way to become more masculine

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Jan 09, 2023
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In Shakespeare’s great study of the warrior archetype, Coriolanus, when the renowned Roman general’s mother asks him to temper his severity for peacetime politics, he responds,

Why did you wish me milder? would you have me
False to my nature? Rather say I play
The man I am.

Mildness and masculinity, he thinks, are opposed.

Indeed, psychological research sho…

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